Parent-Teacher Conferences
Deciphering Common “Red Flag” Phrases
With today’s
parents and teachers stretched for time, it’s sometimes difficult to determine
if a child’s classroom struggles are just a normal part of the learning process
or an indicator of a deeper issue.
Imagine being a teacher trying
to read the signals of 30 fourth graders – some struggling, some excelling, and some falling right in the middle but dealing with typical developmental, social or behavioral issues. Or being a working mom with a deployed husband and three school age kids. Deciphering kids’ school performance isn’t always a simple task!
to read the signals of 30 fourth graders – some struggling, some excelling, and some falling right in the middle but dealing with typical developmental, social or behavioral issues. Or being a working mom with a deployed husband and three school age kids. Deciphering kids’ school performance isn’t always a simple task!
In most cases,
what’s holding your child back has nothing to do with laziness, the teacher or
your child not being smart. In most
cases, learning struggles are about weak brain skills.
Cognitive skills
are the underlying mental tools that make up IQ and include skills like logic
& reasoning, attention, memory processing speed, and auditory and visual
processing. If one or more of these
skills are weak, reading and learning can be difficult. And if weak brain skills are the underlying
cause of problems in school, no amount of tutoring will help. That’s because tutoring is about reteaching
subject matter, like history facts. Cognitive
skills training, on the other hand, addresses the root cause of learning
struggles.
So as you head
into parent-teacher conferences (or any time you talk to your child’s teacher),
listen for these red flag phrases and read the “translation” of what they could
mean.
EXAMPLE #1
IF THE TEACHER SAYS: “I know he’s capable, but. . . .”
- His work doesn’t show it.
- It’s just not coming out.
- He makes little mistakes.
IT COULD MEAN: Several
cognitive skills are very strong, while others are deficient and causing a
bottleneck of information in the brain.
For example, he may have strong logic & reasoning, visual
processing, and processing speed, but weak attention or working memory skills.
For parents and
teachers, this is a common but none-the-less frustrating situation; a smart child whose work and grades
aren’t a reflection of their capabilities.
Imagine a child who has the brain skills to do advanced calculus if only
their sustained attention wasn’t so weak that they can’t stay on task. A detailed cognitive skills assessment will
tell parents which brain skills need to be strengthened to let a brilliant
child or teen reach his full potential.
EXAMPLE #2
IF THE TEACHER SAYS: “He’s below grade level in reading.”
IT COULD MEAN: He’s got weak
phonemic awareness kills. Although
reading struggles can also be caused or compounded by deficiencies in visual
processing, attention, processing speed, and memory, studies show 88% of all
learning-to-read problems are caused by weak phonemic awareness skills.
Phonemic awareness
is the ability to hear, blend, unglue and manipulate the smallest sounds in a
word. If your child continues to
struggle in reading, it’s not going away on its own, and it will eventually
lead to problems in other subjects too.
That’s why it’s important to address the learning skills weaknesses
early.
EXAMPLE #3
IF THE TEACHER SAYS: “He takes a long time to….”
- Finish schoolwork.
- Answer questions.
- Follow directions.
IT COULD MEAN: A child who
takes a long time to follow directions isn’t necessarily being defiant, they
could have slow processing speed. Likewise,
taking a long time to answer questions or finish schoolwork doesn’t mean they
won’t get to the answer eventually – it may just take awhile. If they are the last ones to finish a test,
if they constantly don’t finish assignments or if it takes hours to complete
standard homework loads, more than likely weak cognitive skills are to blame.
EXAMPLE #4
IF THE TEACHER SAYS: “She continues to struggle with . . . “
- Math facts
- Reading comprehension
- Applying math formulas
- Learning sight words
IT COULD MEAN: Learning new
things can sometimes be a struggle for even the brightest kids. But a child who takes longer than her peers
to master grade-level material likely has one or more weak cognitive skills. For
example, a child isn’t born bad at math, and a child is not destined to be bad
at math. Understanding and excelling in
math is simply about having strong cognitive skills – like working memory,
visual processing, and logic & reasoning.
In addition to these red flag phrases, there are specific behaviors
that can be strong indicators of weak learning skills. Take note if any of these are mentioned at
the parent-teacher conference:
- Impulsiveness
- An inability to stay on task
- Bouncing from idea to idea or task to task
- Making sloppy mistakes
- Turning in incomplete work
- Not turning in assignments at all
- Disinterest in school
- Forgetfulness
- Hesitation to read aloud
- Poor organizational skills
- Struggling to follow instructions
- General attention issues
- Problems with analogies
- Difficulty comprehending numbers, directions, answers
- Trouble discerning left and right
- Poor ability to use maps
- Avoiding prolonged mental effort
- Spelling problems, including forgetting words after mastering them
If you hear any of these red flag phrases at your parent-teacher
conference, consider scheduling a cognitive skills assessment. It’s a noninvasive test to evaluate which
brain skills are strongest and which could use some brain training to maximize
the child’s academic potential. Best of
all, strong cognitive skills will stay with your child long after they have
graduated. They’ll carry them into their
career and throughout life because strengthening connections in the brain is
permanent!
Bio:
Article supplied by Nancy Pim, Owner and Director of LearningRx/West
Des Moines & Ankeny (515-224-4819)
Bio: Prior to becoming involved
with LearningRx, I was a public school teacher.
Every year, there were several students in my classroom that struggled
to learn the content I was presenting.
Smaller groups, enabling the help of specialized teachers or our local
AEA, and enlisting the help of their dedicated parents did little to impact
their progress. I always knew that these
students were not struggling because they lacked intelligence, but the reason
for their struggles remained a mystery.
After I discovered LearningRx, their struggles made sense and I am
excited to be a part of the permanent solution to learning issues.
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treating the cause, rather than the symptoms (like difficulty with reading,
math, focus and attention, etc.) of learning struggles. The program’s game-like
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We can help anyone, from 5 to 85, increase the speed, power or
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